What a great question. I’m glad you asked. I’m a professional photographer, and I believe that most of us have “cognitive biases”. In other words, we are not only able to think about the negative, we often tend to think about it.
That’s right, and it’s why I say I would rather not think about my problems. By thinking about something (or someone) it just makes it more intense, or makes it appear more real in our minds.
A little bit of brain-washing. I find that a lot of the time when I’m working on my project I get my mind turned off, and I am far more likely to leave my project and go back to it if there’s a better plan.
My friend Mike has a similar problem. He thinks about all the problems he has, and he ends up thinking about them more. And when you have a lot of problems, you start to think about them constantly.
He also has a similar problem on his project.
Mike thinks of his problems, he thinks about them, and he thinks about them every day. That’s not to say that these problems are all bad. He has a great project. He has a great team. He has a great idea. But it is true that these things do drain him.
It’s called “caring”, and it is one of the key qualities we should all strive for. But it’s not enough to just care for those around you. You need to care about the problems you’re having. And we should all care about the problems we have in our lives. Because we can’t always control our own problems, but we can control the problems we have around us.
Why do they need care? Because they always have. You can’t control them if you don’t have care. It’s not possible for me to care just for the problems we have in my life.
This is a good thing because we cannot protect ourselves from the problems we have, but we can protect ourselves from the problems we do have. And this is a good thing because sometimes the problems we do have are real and sometimes we should just ignore them.
The problem with self-awareness is that we forget we are always aware of our own problems. While it seems obvious, the problem is that we can’t see the problems we have and focus on the problems we can. Our self-awareness is a sort of self-defeating paralysis, where we focus on the problems we have and give up other problems.