I don’t like talking about hurt feelings. But I feel like this is a good way to get a conversation started. There are also a lot of times when the person who hurt you actually wants you to be right. They want you to feel good about yourself when you get hurt. They get hurt a lot.
When something hurts you, it’s not just something you’ll always be able to remember. It’s something that might go away in a week, a month, or however long it takes. That’s why you need to make sure you’re hurt enough. You don’t need to remember the exact moment you felt bad about something. You need to remember that your worst fear or worst moment of doubt has been confirmed.
Youre hurt to a degree, and you dont get to decide whether youve been hurt enough. Youre hurt when you feel like youve been hurt badly, youve been hurt in an accident or something, or its just your bad luck that a certain person has hurt you too badly and youve been forced to deal with it. In some ways, you can take a person at their word and not try to stop them.
I would argue that people tend to forget that they were hurt when it happens. In my experience, this is why a lot of people seem to feel guilty if they let someone down. When you feel bad about something, it makes it much easier to remember and try to stop it from happening again.
And just to make it clear, I’m not saying that it doesn’t happen. I’m just saying that it’s not something you should forget about it if you’re feeling bad about it. It’s not a mistake you can just forgive and forget. You have to be honest with yourself and figure out if you really want the person to be around.
So what are the steps you should take when you are feeling bad about something. First, accept that you hurt someone. Say “I’m sorry for that” instead of “You’re right, I did hurt you.” Secondly, try to learn from your mistake and not make the same mistake again. And lastly, look to see if there is anything you can learn from someone else if you have hurt them.
This is the lesson that I learned from my ex-girlfriend. She was the one who didn’t forgive me for the things I did to her. At a certain point I had to learn to make myself more vulnerable again.
But when you’re trying to fix the relationship between two people, you have to have a conversation. There is a saying that says, “people are more prone to forgive if you talk to them”. That pretty much sums up my personal experience with this. To me, talking to someone who hasn’t forgiven you makes you vulnerable again. It makes you more likely to find yourself in the same situation, if you want to fix your relationship.
After the first day I was so frightened that I had to take away my phone and my camera, that I didn’t think it was worth letting me know if I was going to get mad. I was so terrified that I couldn’t even do it, and it was almost like that was the way to go. I knew I was going to have a hard time finding the courage to tell my friends about the situation, so I didn’t worry.
Maybe you should. If a person tells you that you hurt them, you should probably talk to them. Maybe you should ask them how they’re doing, and try to be there for them. Maybe you should tell them that you know they feel rejected, and that you know how they feel.