Sometimes it feels like the entire universe is against me and my decisions and I’m stuck. This feeling can be so overwhelming, that the only real solution is to stop blaming everything and to start taking ownership for it.
The main reason is that we are programmed to react to events. We think that if we just do things faster and more efficiently, the universe will magically speed up and produce more of exactly what we want. This isn’t necessarily true. Sometimes events just happen to our paths, and we have to accept that as a fact of reality.
The main reason we have this problem is that we have to start taking responsibility for our own lives. We are so programmed that when we feel sorry for ourselves we feel even more sorry for ourselves. We all feel like we are the only person in the world who has a problem, but we are the only person who knows how to fix it. If we all just took responsibility for our own lives, we wouldn’t need to feel sorry for ourselves at all.
We are so programmed, we can’t do anything. We are so programmed that anything can happen to us if we don’t take it seriously. A good example of that is if we don’t take responsibility for our own lives, we can’t talk about why we felt sorry for ourselves. We feel sorry for ourselves when we don’t take responsibility for ourselves.